1. Describe yourself in terms of personal characteristics:

a. Positive traits: ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

b. Negative traits: _______________________________________________________________________

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2. Describe your fiancé (fiancée) in terms of personal characteristics:

a. Positive traits: ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

b. Negative traits: _______________________________________________________________________

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3. What changes do you think your fiancé (fiancée) would like to make in your life?

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4. What changes would you like to make in her (his) life?

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5. Who do you feel is the leader (i.e. decision maker) in your relationship?

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6. What do you do when you get angry with your fiancé (fiancée)?

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1. List (in order of importance) 5 goals that you are seeking to achieve in your lifetime.

a.

b.

c.

d.

e.

2. What do you consider to be the primary goals of your parents?

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How well have they achieved them? _________________________________________________________________________

3. What gifts or abilities has God given to you?

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4. What do you foresee your vocation in life to be?

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5. Where would you like to live? (i.e. state, part of country, etc.)

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1. List the following subjects in order of priority in your life.

(education, vocation, family, self, church, money, spouse, God)

a. e.

b. f.

c. g.

d. h.

2. In one brief paragraph, explain your purpose in living.

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1. Describe your parents:

a. Things I like about them: ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

b. Things I don’t like about them: _______________________________________________________________________

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2. Describe your in-laws:

a. Things I like about them: ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

b. Things I don’t like about them: _______________________________________________________________________

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3. How do your parents feel about your marriage?

4. Who is the decision maker among your parents?

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1. What do you like to do in your spare time?

2. What interests and hobbies

a. do you share with your fiancé (fiancée)? ______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

b. are not shared with your fiancé (fiancée)? _______________________________________________________________________

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3. What qualities and interests do you look for in friends?

1. Do you know of any reason you could not have children (i.e. physiological problems, etc.)?

2. What impressed you positively or negatively about your parent’s sexual relationship?

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3. Do you feel adequately informed about sexual processes?

Yes __________ No __________

4. Are you planning to have children?

Yes __________ No __________

If yes, how many? ___________

5. Have you discussed whether or not to use birth control?

Yes __________ No __________